the Gemini Woman and Pisces Man

When Pisces and Gemini unite, they can be a very mutually satisfying couple. There are a few things this couple should know in order to be successful in a lasting relationship. The two signs are at right angles in the Zodiac, which means that this can be a challenging match. These challenges can be overcome with patience, and understanding, but you will both need to be committed in order for it to work between you.

Pisces processes things differently than Gemini does. While Gemini, an air sign, is more concerned with matters of the mind; Pisces, a water sign, is more concerned with emotional matters. This can lead to miscommunication between you. A Pisces/Gemini couple needs to understand how their partner communicates in order to have a smooth relationship. Though Pisces likes social settings and conversation, much of the way you see and understand the world is nonverbal. This is a direct reflection of the way Pisces is most comfortable communicating. Gemini needs to understand this, because they are naturally not as receptive to that kind of interaction.

Pisces needs to learn to allow Gemini a moment to gather their thoughts. Once they calm their continuously thinking mind, Gemini can be very insightful. If Pisces can allow them this time, they will see that Gemini is not as shallow as they might at first appear, and this will add fodder to relationship.

This couple can also be very emphatic, which allows this relationship to be as flexible as both signs like. While Pisces sees things in a dreamlike way, Gemini is open-minded. Gemini can bring humor and direction that helps focus dreamy Pisces. This relationship can have a very solid base, as these signs are great friends as well as lovers.

When the man in this relationship is a Pisces and the woman a Gemini, this can be a blissful match. Pisces men a very attractive with their dreamy looks and nature that is so passionate. They are naturally attractive to women, and Gemini is no exception. Be careful that Gemini isn’t too thoughtless, as Pisces feelings are easily hurt, even male Pisces. This match can also be a bit self-destructive, as Pisces longs for adoration from their mate, and Gemini loves freedom. Pisces needs to be careful to not be too constricting, or Gemini will be making a run for it.

When the women in the relationship is a Pisces and the man a Gemini, the combination can be a bit unstable. You are both looking for different things from a relationship. Pisces needs Gemini to be more grounded, which is hard for this air sign. Gemini is easily bored by something they used to like, and a Gemini man might love something about you one day, and be put off by it the next. Pisces feelings can be easily hurt in this situation, as she is more sensitive than he is, and feelings are not of the utmost importance to him. However, a Pisces woman has a lot of powers of persuasion over men, with Gemini not being an exception. Use this power wisely. You can teach him a lot about the heart, and he has much to show you about the mind. He also can teach you a better means of communication which can give this relationship a better chance at lasting.

Even when these two signs do have problems, they tend to forgive easily. Gemini doesn’t take the time to hold a grudge, and Pisces is able to see their partners true intentions, making it equally hard to stay upset. Their planets are also complimentary, Pisces’ Jupiter, who is all about learning and philosophy, makes Pisces eager to know new things. Gemini’s Mercury is focused on innovation and invention, which Pisces understands on a deep level.

Typically an Air and Water sign have a hard run in the relationship gamut. However, if they are able to build on their understanding of each other, the Pisces/Gemini couple can be a fairly complete whole. Gemini brings the intellectual part of the relationship, and Pisces the emotional. Put together, these two signs are a smart and compassionate couple.

Both signs are mutable, which means that neither feels the need to be the leader of the relationship, and they can both do what they need to make it work well without stifling one another. It also means that they are both flexible, and deal well with change, something that is very good in this couple.

One of the best things about this couple is that they are so companionable. They are friends, and lovers, and that makes this a great match. They both bring flexibility to the relationship, and are able to accept their differences because of that. This can be a wonderful match, one that runs deep and is long lasting.


Sage Krusi said...

So I'm a gemini female, and I'm infatuated with a pices male. I love how smart he is, how well versed in many things, how nice refreshing he is. The only problem is that I get nervous around him and so the conversation is super awkward. I'd really like to be friends, maybe something more if he is so inclined, but I haven't a clue how worm my way in his affections. Help?

Mark Dunn said...

Im a Pisces and really is feeling this Gemini female,after reading this makes me feel that we could possibly be a match for eachother,she's a beauty

Anonymous said...

I am a Pisces, just tell him exactly how you feel & your Pisces man will do the rest

Anonymous said...

I agree with Anonymous.. tell your Pisces male your interest in him if he likes you he will focus his attention on you and take it from there.

Anonymous said...

As a Gemini female in a relationship with a Pisces male, my only advice can be to become friends first, lovers second. The friendship will endure any hardship. Friendsip with a Pisces male is not difficult as long as you are sincerely interested, he will spot a fake 10 miles away. Good luck!

Gemini Woman said...

Im a Gemini and in love with a pisces male. DO not push him into a relationship. Must be friends first. and gain his trust. If he is interested in you he will always want to hang around you. Watch his eyes. He always stairs at me. We laugh and talk for hours. I live with him too. he rented a room in my house. He now cooks for me all the time and little touches. I feel he will make his move soon. Pisces when they fall in love and they do want to be with you. They will take the time because if your the one he will be yours forever. Warning NEVER lie to him and GIVE him his space.I can so feel he is going to make his move (kiss me)any day. Never interrupt him when he is talking too.

Anonymous said...

So true they can be controlling as well. I'm a gem with a Pisces male very attentive but very jealous too.

suzanna lilly sug said...

I have lived with a Picses man for 32 years. He wants your approval badly. He will perceive your birdlike ways as disapproval. Give him tangible "love you"'s daily and tell him you are the bird, he is the hand. He can learn to love ur flyaways when gifts are brought. My hurt Picses is OCD. He will crowd me.Explain ur need to fly. Teach him how to be your hand(feed you,care 4 you).check out bird and hand relationships on internet.

Anonymous said...

I'm a pisce male and you hit the nail on the head. DON'T lie to him he will always know and then you lost him. Also don't be pushy he'll run. Also , he will always want to be with you , get use to it or you'll feel smothered

Anonymous said...

I am a gemini woman who is in love with pisces male. Good luck to us.

Silturist said...

I'm a Gemini woman who harbored a crush for My Pisces man for a long time. Friends first for sure, but my advice~dont wait for him to ask you out. If you feel his love, Ask him. My pisces gives Me this intense, loving warmth just in his presence. A very calming, otherworldly feeling whenever he is around or whenever I think of him. I mustered up the courage and asked him to be Mine.... Never been happier. Maybe he's waiting for you to make the move too. Don't be scared. Trust your instincts.

Anonymous said...

I am a Gemini woman in a relationship with a Pisces man. It's very true... they are jealous and controlling. Just stand your ground and the relationship will work. Good Luck!

Anonymous said...

I am a Gemini woman in a relationship with a Pisces man. It's very true that they are controlling and very jealous. Just stand your ground and the relationship will work. Good luck! :-)

Anonymous said...

Same thing happened to me (i am a gemini also) so i just went for it and confessed i had a crush for him.. he did the rest. So now we are a couple : )

Anonymous said...

Gemini woman in a relationship with a Pisces man...and most of what has been written is very much on point! My Pisces is fiercely loyal and VERY loving and at times, I felt I couldn't breathe! I've had to teach him that we can still feel love without being on top of one another...8 months in and we are doing just fine. :)

Anonymous said...

I'm a Gemini woman and I've been in with my Pisces man for 3, almost 4 years now :) Yes, he can be controlling and jealous but who doesn't get jealous when there's somebody looking your partner up and down right? As for being controlling he just doesn't want me alone with another guy with is reasonable. We understand each other soo well and are the best of friends! I couldn't ask for a better man :)

Anonymous said...

I'm a Gemini woman with a Pisces man. We have been a couple for 3 months was friends 1St. I couldn't ask for a better partner best relationship ever. Tells me daily he loves me.

Anonymous said...

I am a Gemini woman who is married to a Pisces man. We have known each other since we were 14 years old. We became best friends. We have been together almost 30 years and married 24 years, we have had some ruff roads to cross, but the strong friendship and love overcame it all. We absolutely adore each other, oh did I mention we also have 8 beautiful children with one set of twins! If you are looking for a relationship (Gemin) & (Pisces) go for it don't give up & make it work you won't regret it!

Anonymous said...

DO NOT LIE to a Pisces unless you are trying to get rid of him forever! We Pisces have strong intuition and know right away if you're lying. We trust our intuition and your actions over anything you have to say. Also, we can get jealous if you show guys more attention than we feel is normal. We understand your value of friendships male or female, and we know you love attention from males. However, the only female we need attention from is YOU and we wish that you could be the same way. If you make a Pisces too jealous he might lose those once strong feelings and start looking elsewhere. And getting him back will NOT be easy. He won't want to come back to someone he feels might hurt him, as he knows how strong his emotions are. He will stay loyal all the way though, unless you are unfaithful. All that we ask for in a relationship is loyalty, truthfulness, and adoration. We won't give up easily if we really care for you, however, but don't push your luck! I am a Pisces man who's been dating a Gemini woman for 3 months, and I will do whatever it takes to stay with her. She has guy friends and she cares about her friends a lot, but if she shows me through her actions that she is more interested in hanging out and talking with them, I'll be out fast. This is because we Pisces know how to treat a women right and do not want to give it to a woman who may be cheating and does not deserve it. Prove your loyalty through your actions, show him love and you will have the man you always thought was too good to be true. Trust me!

Anonymous said...

I'm a Gemini girl with a pisces boyfriend. We were definitely friends first. The day we met, we kept interrupting each other because we had lots to say.
Friends for a year, he has a girlfriend and we both felt the sparks, but no one tried to forcibly end anything. With him, I like things to be organic. :)
We started dating a year later.
I just love him. He is part of my soul. I like his eyes. I noticed this about pisces. Great piercing eyes. They stare into my soul, my soul smiles.
I love his voice, so husbandry. I love his intellects, he's a future world leader.
He likes to help people, just like me.
I like sharing soft, kisses with him. On the cheek.
He says he loves my soothing voice. I think my voice gets that way around him.
He naturally awakens the subservient woman in me.
He is my king.
I think that we might both share some mental/emotional telepathy too.
Almost everytime I think about him, he calls me or sends a text saying he was thinking about me right then.

One time though, I lied to him about something. He found out and bullied me psychologically with silence. I hate that. I was so depressed. I apologised to him everyday but even I knew that time had to take it's course. We took a break, I left him alone and kept praying, posting pretty pictures and subliminal apologies on social media. Our relationship has been healed for 8months now. It is renewed, redemmed and it feels like 2011 again. Our bond is back.
I'm so happy. Sigh :)
It's been 3 years. I love him!

Anonymous said...

So true, I'm a Gemini woman with Pisces man, yes he's jealous but i love his loyalty, compassion, family oriented ways. He is my true friend, we are a lot alike socially, he's very loving & we will do anything for each other & we have no room for lies or drama, we talk about everything. I have never felt so complete by anyone. It's the ultimate high of appreciation & admiration for each other.

Anonymous said...

I find this to be all so true! I'm a gemini & well my husband now is a pisces we met 3 years ago & of course as any couple we've had our ups & downs. Last year we separated for nearly 8 months he says 6 but anyway out of nowhere he dropped me like a bomb. I couldn't figure out why no answer no clue no nothing! I had asked if he was talking to someone else his answer was yes. It hurt so I drifted away like the air sign that I am & moved on. Right before we got back together he harassed me followed me said things I knew he didn't mean all because finally realized what he had & let it go. After a few months of getting back together we got married at times he still leaves me clueless & I have feelings too just don't show it because as gemini's some bottle it up & sometimes I just speak my mind which gets me in trouble. So for any of you newly coupled twins & fish give it time it'll all work out in the end �� & Not only pisces dislike or feel a lie us geminis well as for me I dislike it & can feel a lie as well so never lie it'll eventually come out. I smother my pisces with too much love & sometimes I don't feel his smothering love like I want but I know deep down he does he is just still hiding in his shy shell

Anonymous said...

I'm a Gemini woman, married to a Pisces man. To tell you honestly, it's really a very tough ride. We were bestfriends at first,that's for about 6 years before we realized we love each other. We were in a romantic relationship for nearly 7 years.. and we broke up. Then after a year and a half, we reconciled and then, got married. What can I say is that, indeed, a pisces man is definitely a "friend". Till now, me and my husband call each other with our old friendly endearment, just like when we were still best friends. A pisces man has this particular sense of humor and charm that attract other people..which also made me fall for my guy too, i think. He loves to be center of the crowd. He loves it when lot of people "like" and "comment" on his facebook posts, for example.LOL. My problem is that sometimes, I really have a hard time knowing what's in his mind..even up to now. I realized, however,that by asking him directly, i can get the answers. And what he told you, you just have to TRUST that. Dont think more. I find it difficult because I'm a gemini and a lot of things playing in my mind, all the time.Also, when in a relationship with a pisces man, don't ever raise your voice when talking about your concerns with your relationship with him, because he's too sensitive and easily get hurt by words. dont talk your concerns in a "negative" way, too. He'll be alarmed. Try to make it sound like a nice "friendly conversation". Avoid accusing him of things you aren't sure of. He also has habits that most people would say "he's a gay". Maybe because pisces guys are really feminine. It's true that everytime we fight, i always want us to talk it out and reconcile immediately before going to bed, but he, most of the time, chose to get away from the fight..he will just sleep with his back at me and just talk to me when he felt he liked it, but doesn't exceed a day long. However, since we weren't able to talk it out immediately, I already raged and cried a lot... and it already became an unforgettable experience. But right, we easily forgive each other. I'm aware that as a gemini, i have a very complicated mind that i love to play with words, so i always try to speak with him clearly my thoughts instead of having him guess what i want. I also noticed that he can easily be influenced by anyone he sees "good". Wants to do what others he sees as great so people will recognize him great too. Attention-seeker, perhaps? haha. Nevertheless, a pisces man is very romantic - perfect for those who want their partner to shower them with roses - literally. He's the type of guy that if you write a long message, he will write you same as long or more, compared to other zodiacs (eg Virgo). Up to now, he still remembers to greet and celebrate with me our monthsary, which is very cool of him. Very loyal once he set his eyes on you. As a gemini, yes..im very indepedent. And I sometimes think what you guys think too..pisces men are controlling. They set their own pace, and they want you to go with their pace, which is totally not applicable to any gemini, right? I was surprised to know that there are a lot of pisces-gemini couple like us, even if they said that our pair isn't that too compatible:)

Anonymous said...

Hi im not much for starsigns but my crush is

Im a pisces male and shes a gemini female and a gorgeous one

Heres the thing im not usually sensitive but i get frusterated because i do have emotional depth but she really doesn't and its just hard to show affection to her wen she reciprocate in a satisfying way

Wen i ask about her emotions or what she thinks of my compliments she usually says "idk lol" or refuses to tell me because shes "not an expressive person" ive told her i care about her and i think she suspects something "honestly i think u care too much" and shes even asked "how much do you care about me" and "if its just like the rest of my casual friends "

We had a big fight but in the end she apologised and told me (very briefly) how she was comparing my behaviour to another person who said he cared about her ( i'm assuming the guy liked her)

But like i said she apologised but now im scared ive screwed myself by putting myself in the friendzone

Im really invested here and looking for help ive been mad on her for years

Like i said shes a gemini female

Would care to listen to some opinions? Whst should i do?